Social media changes the standard all the time.
Social media can make it very easy to forget what real bodies actually look like.
Good lighting. Good angles. Posing. Editing. Filters. And sometimes just seeing the same type of body over and over until it starts to feel like that’s what a body is supposed to look like.
But even that keeps changing.
At one point, being very thin was the goal. Then curves became the goal. Then it was a tiny waist with bigger glutes. Then athletic. Then something else.
The “ideal” keeps moving. Your body doesn’t need to keep chasing it.
Not everything you see needs to be fixed.
Every time the trend changes, there’s usually something new being sold around it. A diet. A program. A treatment. A procedure. A medication. A product.
That doesn’t mean those things are bad. If there’s something cosmetic you genuinely want to change, there are options for that, and that choice is completely yours.
I just don’t want a trend deciding what you think needs fixing.
You can have cellulite and be strong.
You can have stretch marks and build muscle.
You can have loose skin and still move well, train hard and be very fit.
How your body looks and what your body can do are not the same thing.
Training can change a lot, but it has a job.
We can lose fat. Build muscle. Change your shape. Get stronger. Move better. Improve mobility and control.
But not every normal feature of your body needs to disappear for your progress to count.
Training is there to build and improve your body, not erase every human feature from it.
Some things still have to be built.
You can change your appearance in different ways.
But strength has to be built.
Muscle has to be built.
Movement has to be practised.
Your body’s capacity has to be developed over time.
That’s the part you can’t buy.
I care about both.
I care about how you want your body to look. If it matters to you, it matters to me too.
But I also care about how strong you are, how well you move, and what your body can actually do.
I want you to build the strongest, healthiest and most capable version of your body that makes sense for you. Not the body that happens to be trending right now.